Wednesday 31 May 2023

Monthly Reading Wrap-Up: May 2023. (Summer Reads)


 



Hello Loves! 

May is over and doesn't May feel so long? 

31 days felt close to 60 odd days. 

May was hot and I hunkered down and read my heart out. I read 15 books and while that is not a lot, I did read some hefty little books. 

This month I read a lot on my iPad, I am really enjoying spending time reading on it. 

I bought a few books. Haul is up already. 

Read quite a few new releases, not something I usually do a lot, so that was a good change of pace. 

And I read mostly books I really, really enjoyed. 

This was a good reading month and without gabbing on..let's just jump into it. 


BOOKS OF MAY 2023: 


1. The Greatest Marathi Stories Ever Told Edited by Ashutosh Potkar: I started my month with this collection of short stories originally written in Marathi by a wide variety of writers. I did this mainly to celebrate Maharashtra Day and generally do a deep dive into this book full of writers I hadn't read before. I read this through the month, a story here and a story there and really took my time with these stories and didn't rush it. I started on the 1st and finished it on the 28th. 

I loved this collection, it featured stories from rural areas, urban chronicles, some set in my own city of Mumbai, a spooky story and stories talking about the whole human experience. I loved most of these stories and it was a great way to spend my month. 

3.5/5 


2. Dust Child by Nguyen Phan Que Mai: I read and absolutely loved The Mountains Sing by the author and when I saw that her new book was out, I knew I had to get my hands on it and read it ASAP. And I did just that. 

This book is mainly centered around the ghastly Vietnam War and the myriad ways in which it effects people years and decades later. Mainly told from three perspectives- one of two sisters from a village to move to the city and end up working in a bar catering to American GIs and how eventually they becomes versions of themselves they no longer recognize. We see the sisters in the late 60s and see their lives at the bar during the war years. 

In the present day we meet Phong who is a mixed race child of war- he's half Vietnamese and half Black and his life has not been easy. He is the eponymous Dust Child. This book showed me the cruel reality of so many kids who were a result of the war, being mixed is not something that was widely accepted in the traditional Vietnamese society and these kids were shunned and abused and treated as horrible reminders of the war, for no fault of their own. Phong is desperate to find his parents and somehow find a way to the US and escape his life in a society that has never wanted him. 

We also meet Dan, an American veteran of the war who is back in Vietnam, trying to heal his trauma and wounds. He is also trying to find his former girlfriend and make amends. He was my least favourite character in the whole book and honestly I couldn't give a crap about him and his trauma because what he did to his girlfriend is beyond reprehensible. 

Overall this is a book I liked. A lot. I am just not sure if I LOVED it. 

3.5/5 


3. Take me with you when you go by David Levithan and Jennifer Niven: This is a 2021 release and I don't know how I've never heard about it because I've read and enjoyed books by both these authors. 

Well, this book is told entirely in email exchanges between a brother and sister. 

The sister has run away from home, and no one knows where she is and if she's safe. We know that home was a hellhole and both siblings have suffered all kinds of neglect and physical abuse and so her running away is no real surprise. The book also has some additional voices and well more emails later on in the narrative. 

I liked this. It was very OK. Sad in parts and upsetting. It was a decent read, nothing that blew my mind. 

2.5/5 


4. Stranger Danger by Maren Stoffels: Next I read a thriller, this was a quick read I just breezed through. Three teens rent a cabin in the middle of nowhere to go cram for their finals. Only there is someone else there hellbent on settling old score. 

Like I said I had a lot of fun reading this book and I just breezed through it and it was short and pacy and a good time, the ending while realistic wasn't my favourite but it did pack two very solid twists. 

4/5 


5. The Aayakudi Murders by Indra Soundar Rajan: A pull fiction murder mystery. A mix of murders, occult, magic, ghosts and a small village reeling under all kinds of madness. This was fun and an easy read. Slightly bizarre but that comes with the genre and the little twists were fun too. 

3.5/5 


6. Haunted Places of India by Riksundar Banerjee: This might be the most disappointing thing I've read all month and more so because I went in hoping it would be fantastic. I read the author's previous book, The Book of Indian Ghosts and absolutely loved it. I cannot recommend that enough, so I went in with very high hopes and they were not met..at all. 

It wasn't bad outright. But overall..something here was so off. I didn't enjoy the writing and this was a task to read. 

Not fun. Avoid.

2/5 


7. Soft Animal by Meenakshi Reddy Madhavan: This is my fourth book about the pandemic and I love reading about that crazy time in our lives we all somehow overcame and survived. This book is set in Delhi and we see a couple tackle the lock down together. It's basically a book chronicling the end of a rather unremarkable marriage. It's about a woman feeling alone in her marriage and through the course of the first lock down realizing she doesn't like her husband and wants out of her marriage. 

I liked this book. I liked that this took me back to those insane and terrifying days and showed up how life quickly changed in every single way possible. 

I will do a full review for this one, so keep your eye out for it. 

3.5/5 


8. The Niger Wife by Vanessa Walters: An expat wife or a Niger Wife goes missing in Lagos and no one knows if she's dead or alive. This book takes us to the affluent circles of Nigeria and it's Niger Wives, foreigners married to Nigerian men and we see the life of our main character in the weeks and days leading up to her disappearance and a look at her life so far away from home (London in her case) and how lonely one can be. We also see chapters in the present from the perspective of her aunt who's come all the way from London to represent the family and get some much needed answers. She's also grappling with issues and traumas and memories of her own. 

This was an interesting read. I liked it while I was reading it but it's not a book that will stick with me. Which is fine, not all books are meant to make an indelible impact on you. This was a good enough summer read. 

3/4 


9. Lucky Girl by Irene Muchemi Ndiritu: My next read took me to Kenya. Set in the 1980s and 1990s, this book is about an affluent girl from Kenya who grows up in a house full of women, and while she loves the women in her family, she wants to get out and away from her overbearing mother. So she moves to New York for college and tries to find her own way in the world. 

I loved this book so much. I loved the people, the family dynamics, the mother daughter drama and of course NYC in the 90s sounds perfect. It also had some very interesting and nuanced conversation about race and what it means to be Black in America vs. being Black in Africa. 

Loved this. 

So much. 

Pick it up. 

4/5 


10. Terminal 3 by Debasmita Dasgupta: Loved it. 

Reviewed it. 

4/5 


11. The House on Mango Street by Sandra Cisneros: You guys...everyone loves this book and I've never heard a bad thing about it but I didn't like it. 

It just didn't work for me. 

I can appreciate it but I didn't enjoy it and it just felt really disjointed to me. 

Not for me. 

2/5 


12. The Guest by Emma Cline: I read The Girls by the same author  back when it came out and I absolutely loved it. I actually hope to re-read at some point this year, so I was really looking forward to reading this one. Now I have some mixed feelings about this one. I LOVE the writing. Cline is clearly a very talented writer and I adored how she brought this world to life. I felt like I was in the Hamptons on a hot summer day. I felt like I was right there with Alex, our very unlikable and very messed up protaganist. I want to file this under 'Cool Girl Summer Reads". It's all about the vibes and the tone and treatment and not so much about plot or even character study. 

I was quite into it till the 61% mark but post that my interest just dipped. 

3/5 


13. Yellowface by R.F. Kuang: This one is sharp and acerbic look at the world of publishing and writers and twitter trolls and all sorts of writerly-ness. 

Athena and Juniper are college friends (not close), who both had book deals straight out of Yale. While Athena went on to have a career you can only dream of, Juniper's debut tanked and since then her career has been pretty non-spectacular. One night Athena chokes and passed away right in front of Juniper and Juniper goes on to steal her latest manuscript and then pass it off as her own. Her career skyrockets and everything she dreams of comes true. Only....does it? Does someone know what she's done? 

This book does such a good job of talking about books and the culture in which they exist. Who gets to tell what stories? Do some stories belong to certain individuals? 

There is so much to think about and mull over here. 

I liked this. I found myself stopping to think and dig deep. Love when books make you do that. 

3.5/5 


14. Bless The Daughter Raised by a Voice in her Head by Warsan Shire: I have read and loved Shire's poetry before and I really, really enjoyed this collection of poems, a lot of which are about her mother and her relationship with parents. Hard-hitting and moving and powerful, her poetry is something I'll always want to read more of. 

3.5/5 


15. Tinkle Origins Vol. IV: Ended my month with a dose of happiness and nostalgia. 

Tinkle is synonymous with summer and reading on hot summer afternoons. It's such a joy reuniting with characters I grew up with and loved so much. 

5/5 

~~~~~ 

15 books and a mix of thrillers, new releases, literary fiction and historical fiction and even some poetry, graphic novel and a comic book. 

A solidly good reading month! 

:) 

Hope May was lovely for you too and full of good reading. 

Tuesday 30 May 2023

Book Review: Terminal 3 by Debasmita Dasgupta

 




Book: Terminal 3 

Author & Illustrator: Debasmita Dasgupta 

Publisher: Penguin India 

Pages: 110

How Long it Took Me To Read: Under an Hour

Plot Summary: It's August 2019 and Khwab Nazir is waiting to board the plane at Terminal 3 of New Delhi International Airport. Set to represent India at an international jiu-jitsu tournament, Khwab nervously looks towards her unknown future. She also reflects on her complicated past-of growing up against the insurmountable difficulties of life in Kashmir.


Between happiness and emptiness, desire and grief, penance and peace, Khwab has endured. She has a dream that life will be a paradise, one day. Breathing against the backdrop of conflict, Terminal 3, is the story of the everyday people striving to live their dreams in the Valley.

Things I Liked: 

1. This is a story we really need to hear and hear more of. People living in difficult situations and somehow holding on to hope and dreams and working on turning those seemingly impossible dreams into reality. And overall, we all need more stories out of Kashmir. 

2. I went in pretty blind into this book-I knew it was about a young aspiring sportswoman from Kashmir. I knew the bare bones details but overall this whole book was a surprise. It had so much more depth and heart that I was expecting and even though it's aimed at children and young adults, it doesn't shy away from being honest and open about what life is like in Kashmir. 

3. The art just took my breath away. The entire colour palette was gorgeous and a thing of joy. Stunning colours and illustrations. 

Here are few of my favourite pages from the book. 










4. I love the people in this book, especially those around our main character- Khwab, her cheerleaders and her relentless support systems. It was so heart warming to read about her friends, family (especially her wonderful parents) and her coach who never give up on her and more importantly keep reminding her to bet on herself and keep pushing ahead, even in the face of grief and loss and fear. 

5. This book doesn't mince words or sugarcoat difficult situations. Life isn't rosy, least of all in Kashmir for the last few decades and I really appreciated this book showing us just how grim that world feels to a young girl. 

6. This is one of those books that work just as brilliantly for children and adults. 

Rating: 4/5 

Highly recommend. 

Monday 29 May 2023

Book Haul: Books of May 2023.

 Hello Loves! 

I've been so bad at documenting my book buying this year and by the grace of God I've been buying so many books! 

Well, let's not let the Books of May languish anymore. 

These are the books I bought in May 2023 and I've even read a few from this bunch. 

So let's just jump in. 



What a pretty little stack! 



I am slowly but surely trying to collect all the books in the Greatest Stories Ever Told series from Aleph, this month I bought two books. 
The first from Goa, which I am really looking forward to and it's something I am hoping to read through next  month. I read the Greatest Marathi Stories this month. So Maharashtra in May and then
June in Goa. Sounds good to me. 


Picked up this beautiful graphic novel about a young sportswoman from Kashmir and I read it and loved and reviewed it. 
:) 
You can find it here


I have read and really enjoyed the author's work before and this novel, set in Assam and about a late in life love affair, between two people from different religions and the old but golden (not at all) adage that runs our lives here in India- What will People Say? 
I am really excited to this and am definitely\ going to pick it up next month. It sounds like just the thing I'll enjoy. 


I love me some ghost stories and reading about real life haunted situations. 
This one, set in real locations across Delhi should be a good time and it won't spook me out too much since I have no immediate plans of going to Delhi.
 :D 
I am saving this to read on a rainy, rainy day in June. Ufff rains and some bhoots sounds perfect. 


More ghostly situations, this one is more Haunted Places but from all over India. 
I've read this and sadly didn't really love it as much as I had hoped I would. 
This just didn't work for me. 
The writing was so lack luster and just off in so many places. 
Not good, would not recommend. 


And I picked up some Telegu stories too. 

This I'll pick in a month or two. 

And I am hoping to buy a few more of these books and add to my collection. 



Finally I picked up Soft Animal which is novel set in the first wave of the lock down and pandemic. I've read this one too and I will be reviewing it soon. So stay tuned for that. 

And I also treated myself to some ebooks and three new Tinkle Origins(Volumes 4, 5 and 6). I previously bought the first three volumes back in 2018 or 2019 and I love Tinkle so damn much and I love taking little dips into. 





BOOKS BOUGHT: 

The Greatest Goan Stories Ever Told Edited by Manohar Shetty 

The Greatest Telegu Stories Ever Told Edited by Dasu Krishnamoorthy and Tamraparni Dasu 

Haunted Places of India by Riksundar Banerjee 

The Haunting of Delhi City by Jatin Bhasin and Suparna Chawla Basin 

What Will People Say? by Mitra Phukan 

Terminal 3 by Debasmita Dasgupta 

Soft Animal by Meenakshi Reddy Madhavan 


A happy little haul and the promises of so many good books in my future. 

Happy Reading Guys! 

Friday 26 May 2023

Weekend Binge List: What to Watch on OTT this Weekend!

 Hello, hello,

It is Friday and in just a few hours, another weekend starts! WeeHee! 

If you plan on staying in and being a couch potato, then we have some binge-worthy OTT show and movie recommendations for you! 


1. Shabash Feluda (Zee5): Another new reboot/ new franchise for our favourite Bengali detective! This one stars Parambrata Chattopadhaya as Feluda and brings to life one of the many Feluda stories that have not hitherto been made for TV or film! This is a convoluted, fast-paced thriller and is definitely worth watching! 


2. The Last Thing He Told Me (AppleTV): Based on the eponymous book, this is a fast-paced thriller about whether we really know the ones we love! When Hannah Hall's husband goes missing, she has no idea the kinds of things she would end up finding out about his past and the sacrifices they would need to make to keep his daughter- Bailey- safe. If you liked the book, you'll also like the series. 


3. Kathal (Netflix): A sharp and well-made satire about the priorities of the police in some Indian states. When the local MLA's exotic species of jackfruit goes missing, the local police is called in and all their resources and focused on finding the jackfruits and the culprit. Hilarious and with great performances, this one is a must-watch! 


4. Virupaksha (Netflix): Based in 1991, in a small village in Andhra Pradesh, Virupaksha questions people's blind faith in rituals and religion even when it sounds counterintuitive! A supernatural thriller, this one will keep you hooked. 


5. Neelavelicham (Amazon Prime Video): Set in the 1960s, this movie follows a writer, who rents a home so that he can concentrate and work on his novel. However, the house is not what it seems and he can sense a presence of a young girl who had killed herself a decade ago. Will he be able to unravel the mystery behind her death? A really nice movie that is definitely worth watching. 



6. High Desert (AppleTV): Recently released from prison, her "mommy" dead and at a bit of a career dead end, Peggy needs something to do! So, she decides to become a PI and also, finds herself a mentor and bring in new cases to their firm. Hilarity and chaos ensues! An absolute must watch! 


7. Platonic (AppleTV): College besties Sylvie and Will have not been in touch for five years because Sylvie didn't approve of Will's wife. Now that Will is divorced, the two besties reunite and do chaotic things. Very, very funny! 


8. City on Fire (AppleTV): Made by the folks who made Gossip Girl and The O.C (shows I love). This one is set in New York City circa 2003. A young college student is shot in the head in Central Park and it's a show about her and her friends and several other people connected to this shooting. I am two episodes in and I am really enjoying this, the story, the people, place and even the styling. 


9. Jaatishwar (Hoichoi): A short and quick thriller/drama series about a young woman who comes to her boyfriend's ancestral home for the first time and has a feeling like she's been there before. She remembers things and is acting strange putting the family on edge. Nicely done, with a good twist or two. 


10. Homestay Murders (Hoichoi): Saw this last weekend in one sitting and really, really enjoyed it. It's short and a straight forward closed room murder mystery. A homestay in the hills, a couple of guests, the homestay owners and a dead body. A killer amongst them. This was so much fun. 



Wednesday 24 May 2023

Book Review: Homecoming by Kate Morton

 



Book: Homecoming 

Author: Kate Morton 

Pages: 558

Read on: Kindle 

Read in: 5 hours 

Plot Summary: Adelaide Hills, Christmas Eve, 1959: At the end of a scorching hot day, beside a creek on the grounds of a grand country house, a local man makes a terrible discovery. Police are called, and the small town of Tambilla becomes embroiled in one of the most baffling murder investigations in the history of South Australia. 

Many years later and thousands of miles away, Jess is a journalist in search of a story. Having lived and worked in London for two decades, she now finds herself unemployed and struggling to make ends meet. A phone call out of nowhere summons her back to Sydney, where her beloved grandmother Nora, who raised Jess when her mother could not, has suffered a fall and is seriously ill in the hospital. 

At Nora's house, Jess discovers a true crime book chronicling a long-buried police case: the Turner Family Tragedy of 1959. It is only when Jess skims through its pages that she finds a shocking connection between her own family and this notorious event – a mystery that has never been satisfactorily resolved.


Things I Liked: 


1. If you think you would enjoy historical murder mysteries, then you simply must read Kate Morton! We have read and loved every single book of hers and if you want to look at those books, then click here to read our detailed spoiler-free reviews. So, much like all of her books, the premise is 10/10 and since the story revolves around four mysterious deaths from 1959, I knew, going in, that this book was going to be a fun ride! 


2. The narrative is fast-paced, interesting and taut; you don't find your mind wandering or yourself getting bored. The story is a split-time narrative, which moves from the events of December 1959 to 2018 with some pitstops in the 1970s and 1980s as well. The mysterious death of four members of the Turner family in rural South Australia sets off a series of interesting events and the book unravels these as we go along. In the present day, we have Jess, who has to return home to Sydney when her grandmother, Nora, was hospitalised after a bad fall. It is Jess, who accidentally chances upon the mysterious deaths of the Turner family and starts unravelling the secrets of the past. 

The author does a great job, as always, in bringing the places, people and situations to life. As a reader, you feel like you get to know these characters and you are in these places as the events unfold, which is a huge testament to Kate Morton's writing prowess! 


3. This book is about families, functional and dysfunctional ones. It is also about motherhood and mothering- all kinds of it. It is about claustrophobic mothering relationships and about decisions women make with far-reaching consequences. As the true events of the December of 1959 unravel, aided by a non-fiction book written by a journalist covering the case, a lot of these different kinds of motherhood and mothering situations are looked at and each makes the reader think. 


4. I really liked how the missing pieces of the puzzle for the cold case from 1959 were put together. At first, it was only Jess who did the research and found out quite a bit about Isabel Turner, the mother, who was accused of killing herself and her three children and then we also learn that Jess' estranged mother, Polly, did her own research about the past. The way the secrets are unraveled and new information comes to light is very nicely done. 


5. The murder mystery itself is not very easy to solve. The culprit is not very obvious but is guess-able if you pay attention. :) There are several red herrings and that is always a good thing in a mystery book!  


Things I Didn't Like: 

1. Nora, the grandmother, who is at the centre of this whole story and caused certain events to unfold remains a shadowy figure. We don't really get to know how she thinks and what drives a lot of her actions and there are no chapters from her perspective to help us understand her better. 


Rating: 4.5/5 

If you enjoy historical crime fiction, then this is a good book to pick up! 



Thursday 18 May 2023

Book Review: Did You Hear About Kitty Karr? by Crystal Smith Paul


Book: Did You Hear About Kitty Karr?

Author: Crystal Smith Paul 

Pages: 416 

Read on: Kindle 

Read in: ~4.5 hours 

Plot Summary: When Kitty Karr Tate, a White icon of the silver screen, dies and bequeaths her multimillion-dollar estate to the St. John sisters, three young, wealthy Black women, it prompts questions. Lots of questions.


A celebrity in her own right, Elise St. John would rather focus on sorting out Kitty’s affairs than deal with the press. But what she discovers in one of Kitty’s journals rocks her world harder than any other brewing scandal could—and between a cheating fiancé and the fallout from a controversial social media post, there are plenty.

The truth behind Kitty's ascent to stardom from her beginnings in the segregated South threatens to expose a web of unexpected family ties, debts owed, and debatable crimes that could, with one pull, unravel the all-American fabric of the St. John sisters and those closest to them.

As Elise digs deeper into Kitty's past, she must also turn the lens upon herself, confronting the gifts and burdens of her own choices and the power that the secrets of the dead hold over the living. Did You Hear About Kitty Karr? is a sprawling page-turner set against the backdrop of the Hollywood machine, an insightful and nuanced look at the inheritances of family, race, and gender—and the choices some women make to break free of them. 


Things I Liked:

1. A story that starts in the deep South (of America) in the mid-1930s, moves to Hollywood in the mid-1950s and then in 2017, the wide canvas of the narrative and the focus on an actress with a mysterious past were the key hooks that got me interested in this book. I expected to read about race-related events in the 19th century that shaped the America of today via the lens of the film industry and to learn more about the life of Kitty Karr- our mysterious leading lady. 


SPOILERS AHEAD -- PLEASE STOP HERE IF YOU PLAN ON READING THIS BOOK--

2. The book centres around the concept of passing, which is the term used by Black people to describe the lighter-skinned Blacks, who can "pass as White", thereby facing none of the discrimination, cruelty and reaping all of the benefits that come from having lesser melanin. So, it is not even really a spoiler and it is pretty easy to guess that the young, biracial girl called Mary, whose story we see in the first ~20% of the book, is the one, who goes on to become Kitty Karr- the White actress. 

So, this book talks about the guilt that comes with passing, the shame felt by the women, who passed and the very obvious benefits of passing. All of this is done really well and we get to see some of these women, Kitty included, feel all of these emotions once they decide to pass and the price they pay for pretending to be white. 


3. In the 2017 timeline, we get to see how Elise, a successful actress, is in trouble with her studio due to her Instagram post supporting the NFL players, who took a knee to protest the treatment of Black people and to support the Black Lives Matter movement. We get to see how the business puts pressure on these actors and actresses to toe the line, not comment on anything remotely political and to stay away from any controversies- a line that Elise finds difficult to toe because as a Black woman she can't look away from what is happening around her. 


4. Kitty's life and her journey from a small town in North Carolina to Hollywood is interesting and not a stereotypical one. You'd expect that Kitty went around auditioning for roles but that is not how she became an actress- she became a writer first. So, that was also another interesting aspect of the book. 


Things I Didn't Like: 

1. The book is, primarily, about passing- Black women, who are light-skinned due to White ancestry passing off for White. So, there is a group of such women in Hollywood across all kinds of professions, who are white passing and they have a secret society-type of an organisation, where they make plans for each of the White passing girls, so that they end up marrying influential White men and then influence them to make pro-Black decisions/ policies/ choices. 

Look, I have nothing against this kind of speculative fiction. I am sure, perhaps, that there were White passing women, who have done their bit to further the Civil Rights Movement but what I take some kind of umbrage to is one of the White passing women telling Kitty that all major policy changes favouring Black people were possible due to a White passing Black woman, who influenced the right White man. 

Now that can not possibly be true! And it just takes away from the sacrifices and struggles of darker-skinned Black people, who have played the most significant role in shaping the Civil Rights Movement in America (e.g. Rosa Parks, Dr. King, Harriet Tubman, Malcom X etc.) . I mean, making blanket statements like that can be so reductive and insensitive! I have not yet seen a single review that talks about this aspect of the book because White reviewers in America are so careful to criticise anything written by a Black author about Black people. However, since I am a Brown Indian woman, I have no such fears and I am calling it like I see it! :) 

The author wanted to create a lot of sympathy for White passing women, given that these women were (and continue to be) vilified by most of the Black community (which I fully understand because who wouldn't judge anyone that denies their race and pretends to be the enemy). So, in order to create  sympathy and garner some kind of acceptance for them and show that they did contribute to the Civil Rights Movement, the author has invented this whole 'behind every positive change for the Black people is a White passing Black woman' fantasy, which, honestly, is quite racist and offensive! 

Also, the author should have done some basic research to understand that in the 1950s-60s, men did not listen to or were influenced by women! Not even in America! 

A much better book on the issue of passing is Brit Bennett's The Vanishing Half. 


Rating: 3/5 



Saturday 13 May 2023

5 Reasons to Watch Dahaad on Prime Video

 


It's another weekend and a hot one at that! Or a rainy one if you are in the path of Cyclone Mocha! Please stay safe! 

So, if you are looking to stay in and binge a show, then may we suggest Dahaad on Amazon Prime Video. 

We binge watched it today and here are five reasons why we think you should watch this show! 


1. Loosely inspired by the notorious Cyanide Killer - a serial killer from Karnataka known for killing women with cyanide - Dahaad is, at a very basic level, a serial killer thriller show. However, it is not just that. It is a lovely, nuanced look at general misogyny, the role and place of women in society, issues of casteism and religious intolerance that are so prevalent in our society today. So, if you want to watch a great serial killer cat-and-mouse type show with some thoughtful and intelligent layers, then this is the show for you. 


2. The casting is just stellar! Sonakshi Sinha, Vijay Varma, Gulshan Devaiah and Sohum Shah are pitch perfect in their roles. Their accents, body language and mannerisms are all pitch perfect. Since the show is based, primarily, in small town Rajasthan (Mandawa), the accents are fairly authentic and the main characters seldom slip up. Always a good thing. The supporting cast is also very good and it is a pleasure to watch a show that has good actors in every scene. 


3. The narrative is well-rounded and perfectly paced. You don't feel like skipping ahead or feel yourself getting bored during the eight-episode run of the show. The narrative unfolds well and we see the story being told from the cops' perspective as well as from the killers' perspective leading to the cat-and-mouse game between the two parties. 


4. As I said earlier, the show is very nuanced. The issues that plague India today have been captured beautifully and organically without being too preachy or over-the-top. The prevalent casteism and how they impacts people on an everyday basis has been shown so starkly here. You feel like cringing in disgust. Also, there is a lot of focus on misogyny and how women are treated at home, in the workplace and in our society. Girls go missing and the families don't report them missing because khandaan ki izzat! *head desk* 


5. The individual journeys/ life situations of each of the cops (Sonakshi, Sohum and Gulshan) are also quite interesting as each has different issues of their own and each of these are so starkly different from the other. Sohum's character is so jaded by the evil around him that he doesn't want a child at all. His character arc and growth is one of the highlights of the show. Sonakshi's character faces both gender and caste-based discrimination and on top of that, like every girl of a certain age, she is desperately staving off her mother's attempts to get her married to some suitable boy. Gulshan is a father of two in a marriage with a woman whose worldview is very different from his own progressive, gentle ones. His conversations with his kids are also a huge highlight of the show, especially, how he explains the urge to learn more about sex with his teenaged son. 


Overall, this show is a full package. Thrilling, dark, interesting and stays with you long after you've finished watching it. Highly recommend! 



Thursday 11 May 2023

General Whimsy: DIY Room Decor- Spruce up a Boring Steel Cupboard.

 Hello Loves! 

If you live in a typical Indian home, you probably have a steel cupboard or two and usually those guys, while super useful are quite an eyesore. And they are so large and bulky. I have three steel cupboards in my bedroom. I am super grateful to them for holding all my clothes safe but I do like to dress them up a bit. I wish I could paint mine but that seems like a big job and not to mention I am very allergic to the smell of paint. The last time we got things painted at home, I nearly died. 

Not even joking. 

So I find other ways to jazz up my cupboards. 

I use a ton of cute magnets and stickers and postcards and cards but I was getting so bored of the art I had on for a while that I was in desperate need for some change. 

So a few days ago, I pulled out some of my little postcards and bookmarks and even a thank you note or two and did up one of my cupboards. 

Let's see what my new jazzed up cupboard looks like. 



Look, how cute! 
I am so in love with the colours and art and words. I have been waking up and looking at this corner of the room first and it makes me so happy. 

The art on this panel is from: 
Diary of a Flower Girl 
Paperfinity 
Chica Being Me 
The brooch is from Charulata.
Comicaanaa. 

(you can find all these stores on IG)


This panel might be my favourite! 
This has two thank you notes, I cut up and repurposed as postcards. 

The art is from: 
Paperfinity. 
Norii Art 
Page Break 
Doodle O Drama 
Comicaanaa 



There's a lot of bookish stuff, because duh your girl likes to read. 
:) 
I used Washi Tape to put these up but I think I'll have to go back and use Scotch Tape to put them on more firmly, because some have fallen off in the middle of the night. 


There is an empty spot on this side which I need to pull out/find art for. 


I also ordered some art for my bedroom walls today. It's in desperate need for some major, major rejig. I've had the same art on the walls since 2016! Time for a change. I'll share what my room looks like with the new art comes in. 


This is what my room looks like right now. 
I can't wait to add new colour and art to these walls. 
:) 
Stay tuned for the room rejig. 
:) 




Wednesday 10 May 2023

Haul: Badges/Magnets & Tote Bag from Doodle O Drama.

 Hello Loves! 

Let's haul something seriously cute today, shall we? 

I got some absolute adorable things from Doodle O Drama, a place I've had my eye on for a while, her art is so cute and squishy. 

Let's see.. 



Perpetual Mood. 
This one just spoke to me. 
Look at his tired little face. 
I cannot even with the accuracy of this feeling. 


The rest of the gang. 

We've put these guys on our Raskog carts, and they add so much quirk to our stationery carts. 


Now for the bag. 




Emotional Baggage, something we all cart around, but has it ever looked this wholesome? 
I think not. 
Look at these faces! 
I cannot with the cuteness. 
Just look at the expressions. 







Miffed but cute. 

The bag is huge and spacious and very well made and super sturdy. 

I used it as my planner bag in March and it held all of my stuff and I think this is the perfect size for daily use and even a spot of travel. 

The shop is currently on a break. But keep your eye out for some seriously adorable things. 

I also got a Journal, which I'll haul properly and once I start using it. 

:) 

Tuesday 9 May 2023

Haul: Embroidered Jewellery from Rainbow Tales.

 Hello Loves! 

If you know me, you know I love love love things made by hand and I have a special soft spot for embroidered things. Both my Grandmothers were skilled embroiderers, so every time I buy a piece of embroidered something, I feel like it's something my Thamma and Dida would like. 

:) 

We've bought from Rainbow Tales and Rhichita before, a couple of time and we love her work and her artistry. 

We recently bought a few pendants and two brooches and they are so lovely. 

Here's a little look. 



Here are the necklaces. 
This is an edit of small pieces and I love them. So much more wearable and easy to just throw on. 
I love the tiny florals so much. The lavender ones might be my favourite but I do love the little bee so damn much. So cute and see how neat everything is. 


These are the brooches and they are so lovely. 

Florals again because clearly I can't have enough. 

:) 

Do go check out her shop and treat yourself to something beautiful and unique. 

Monday 8 May 2023

Monday Moods: Summer Staples ~ Journals, Salads, Outfits and Coffee.

Summer is here. 

And I am making a decided effort to find the silver lining and make the most of this season and not be such a frump about the heat and dust and humidity. 

So yesterday morning I made a whole list of things I love about summer. Instead of my Morning Pages, I sat and did a deep dive into things I enjoy about summer. 

:) 



 

I went all out and found matching stickers to do up my spread. 

Stickers are from The Bodhi Shop, I got two kits from them recently and I am really pleased with the quality of the stickers and other paraphernalia. 




Here is my motley list of summer loves. 

In no particular order. 

🍋🍍🌻🍉🌿🍈



Summer also means summer salads. I avoid cooking in a hot kitchen as much as I humanly can. Salads, chaats and fuss free meals is how I like to spend most of May. 
I eat a plate of fruit on most days. 
Watermelon, grapes and of course Mangoes or even a sweet Papaya is my lunch on most days. 


The Salad I had at Knead by Moshe Shek was a delight. 



As for summer styles, I like to live in cotton. TBH, given that I live in Mumbai I live in cotton clothes year round. But in summer I try to wear the lightest and the most breathable fabrics. And loooooseeeee clothes. 



My bed getting her daily dose of Vitamin D. 

:) 



And summer is peak Cold Coffee season. We occasionally order in some Starbucks. 

My usual order is a White Mocha Latte (iced and a grande). 

I love it. 

:) 


While the summer sun does drive me crazy, I am trying to find comfort in..

Summer Reading. 

Films. 

Staying in. 

Fruits. 

Waiting for the rains. 

Thinking back to the summer holidays of my childhood. 

Reading some quintessential summer reads...I am thinking some YA and maybe a few Famous Five books. 

:) 

Do you like summer? 

I can't wait for June and the rains but while May is here, I am going to find ways to love it. 


Friday 5 May 2023

Hello May 2023! & Life Lately

 Hello May! 

Hope this brand new month has been treating you well! 



This is what the first five days of May have looked like! My sister and I have been reading The Adventures of Feluda by Satyajit Ray and we've been sneaking in re-watches of some of our favourite Feluda movies (which is ALL the Feluda movies)! :) 




May is also all about mangoes and we've been enjoying our Alphonsoes a little too much! 
Not all of them have been 100% sweet and with those we make a little aam makha, which is a simple mango much with sugar, salt, pepper and mustard. 





My current read! Loving re-reading these lovely stories! 




New books galore on the iPad! Excited to read all of them! 





The Bhooter Raja and his motley crew! This tote bag houses my planners this month and I love it!  




Setting up my journal pages for a new month is such a meditative and fun activity for me. 






Days are warm and long and I am envying those parts of the country that are experiencing unseasonal rain! 




May is for Ray and all things to do with the maestro! 



Have a great weekend ahead, guys!